A table of bounty had been set before us ... chicken,
Egyptian mulukhiya, kofta, dolmas, cucumber and lettuce salad, fresh bread.
That's what happens when you travel to an Egyptian home for a meal. Every
specialty of the house is placed before you. Not eating is considered an insult
and so you taste ... everything. It is not a burden because the food is
delicious.
Sunday we were invited to Amir's home for the midday meal.
Amir was a student in past years and will visit America with another seminarian
in July and August. He lives about 45 minutes from seminary by taxi, subway and
foot, and so we made our way.
We sat with Amir's tiny mother in her ornate, air
conditioned sitting room in an ancient structure built by previous generations
of family. The flat-screen TV was on the wall and her son and grandsons
attended to their various smart phones from time to time throughout the
afternoon.
Through those gathered, she told us about her 73 years of
life. She showed us a wedding picture from the mid-60s. She told us about her
youth in Upper Egypt and then her early years of marriage in Cairo when she
would go to a nearby source to carry water from the common spigot for the
family's needs.
As I listened, I thought about the changes that this woman and others of her generation in Egypt, have seen in the course of their
lifetimes. From animal transport and no electricity or water in homes to all of
the modern conveniences of life today. In the course of her
lifetime, she has experienced changes that spanned multiple generations in my family.
Faced with all that she has seen and the pace of change that
she has witnessed, she could be bitter or simply tired. Instead, she sat with
a smile on her face and warmth emanating from her being. "It is a blessing
for me that you have come to my home. You are welcome anytime."
I'm certain that THIS is what being received by God's love
looks like. I only hope to provide her son with such a reception when he
travels to our home later this summer.
I hope that God says that to me when I traverse from this life to the next. What a blessing that must have been for you.
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